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Mother's Day

Mother’s Day History

Mother's Day is a modern celebration honoring one's own mother, as well as motherhood, maternal bonds, and the influence of mothers in society. It is celebrated on various days in many parts of the world, most commonly in the months of March or May. It complements similar celebrations honoring family members, such as Father's Day and Siblings Day.

The modern American holiday of Mother's Day was first celebrated in 1908, when Anna Jarvis held a memorial for her mother in Grafton, West Virginia. Her campaign to make "Mother's Day" a recognized holiday in the United States began in 1905, the year her beloved mother, Ann Reeves Jarvis, died. Anna’s mission was to honor her own mother by continuing work she started and to set aside a day to honor mothers, "the person who has done more for you than anyone in the world". Anna's mother, Ann Jarvis, was a peace activist who cared for wounded soldiers on both sides of the Civil War and created Mother’s Day Work Clubs to address public health issues.

Due to the campaign efforts of Anna Jarvis, several states officially recognized Mother's Day, the first in 1910 being West Virginia, Jarvis’ home state. In 1914 Woodrow Wilson signed the proclamation creating Mother’s Day, the second Sunday in May, as a national holiday to honor mothers.

Although Jarvis was successful in founding Mother's Day she soon became resentful of the commercialization and was angry that companies would profit from the holiday. By the early 1920's, Hallmark and other companies started selling Mother's Day cards. Jarvis became so embittered by what she saw as misinterpretation and exploitation that she protested and even tried to rescind Mother's Day. The holiday that she worked so hard for was supposed to be about sentiment, not about profit. Jarvis's intention for the holiday had been for people to appreciate and honor mothers by writing a personal letter, by hand, expressing love and gratitude, rather than buying gifts and pre-made cards. Jarvis organized boycotts and threatened lawsuits to try to stop the commercialization. She crashed a candy makers' convention in Philadelphia in 1923. Two years later she protested at a confab of the American War Mothers, which raised money by selling carnations, the flower associated with Mother’s Day, and was arrested for disturbing the peace.

Jarvis's holiday was adopted by other countries and it is now celebrated all over the world.

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Mother’s Day via Skype, FaceTime and Virtual Connecting

Mother's Day via Skype, FaceTime and Virtual Connecting

When growing up my grandparents lived close by and were a regular presence is my life. But times have changed and kids and grandkids can be scattered all over the place.

Can't be with your mom on May 13th. Luckily, we have our screens to connect us with those we love so dearly. We all agree the ability to connect via technology is a blessing in our lives.

Recent Skype survey showed that 93% of moms would love to spend Mother’s Day with their children on Skype if they can’t be together in person?  

Here are a few ideas to have a perfect Mother's Day even if you can't be with her in person:

·  Send a gift to your mom and watch her open it over a Skype/Facebook call

·  Get the whole family together and have a group video call with her

·  Have lunch or dinner with her through Skype/Facebook

·  Send her a personalized video message

Hopefully these ideas are of help when creating your Mother’s Day plans.